Connection Kuel Category Expert: Kay Newton
7.8 billion people on the planet. We are all here for a reason. There is no coincidence that you are reading this article at this moment in time and no coincidence that I am writing it – just synchronicity, a connection that is meant to be, however brief.
Yes, it is time for us to connect. I have something to share or you have something you wish to share with me (even if it is a reply or comment to this article). Right now you may be wondering why we are meant to connect on the path to synchronicity and your thoughts might resemble one of these three friends:
Friend One – This Is Just Weird!
“ All my emotions came from outside of me.”
My first friend says everything in her body language before we even speak. Her arms are usually folded and she slumps down on the chair. There is a distinct scowl mark on her forehead and a tangible grey cloud above her head.
She would tell you, the reader, right now “There is no point in reading any further because there is nothing that she is going to say of importance. Synchronicity is all a load of codswallop. If you lived my life you would know that it cannot be so. Nothing in my life has happened due to some universal force.”
I totally get her feelings. In my past, I used to feel the same and there is nothing wrong in feeling this way. If this resonates with you; my friend is probably right and at this moment in time it is better to read something else in Kuel Life – just turn the page! I will not be offended.
I also used to believe that I was a victim of circumstance that I had no control over my life and what happened to me. And, I chased the dreams that many do, a dream home, perfect relationship, great clients. Sometimes it was awesome; other times a nightmare. All my emotions came from outside of me. I blamed the government, the local authorities, my neighbour, or my husband and kids. Nothing was ever my fault. The more I did this the more addictive it became and further down the rabbit hole I fell.
Eventually, I became like my second friend a ‘maybe’ person.
Friend Two – Maybeeeee…
“It does take time and effort to align our energy and allow synchronicity in.”
My maybe friend sits on the fence, her body language is a little more open. A bit like a light switch, some days she glows, other days she is grey. Her body language goes from animated and glowingly happy to scowly and grey. It is so Jekyll and Hyde; it is exhausting to watch.
This friend would say “I get the idea that synchronicity plays an important part in my life. When I listen to my intuition magic shows in my life and it leads to great things. It’s just that it doesn’t happen all the time and then I get angry and frustrated! I don’t have the time to listen to my gut instinct, life gets in the way. Being in flow all of the time is just too much like hard work!”
I too have been here and feel for my friend. At times, my thoughts and feelings come back to this pattern and I have to guide myself out. It does take time and effort to align our energy and allow synchronicity in. It takes trust to believe that whatever life throws at us, we create the reality of our world from the inside out and not the other way round. It is the minute by minute choices we make, our thoughts and feelings which leads to our actions that create the life we lead today.
Finally, my third friend.
Friend Three – I Totally Get This
“we understand that at a vibrational energy level, a quantum level, we are one”
My third friend totally gets that there is no such thing as coincidence. Her body language is much more open, she glows from the inside out. She also tends to take an extra few seconds to think about the words she uses and the thoughts she creates. Without effort, she breathes deeper and time seems to be slower around her. There is a sense of calm even during a storm.
This friend may say “I understand about synchronicities and know that there is no such thing as coincidence. I do not even need to be ‘spiritual’ to get this, statistically, the ratio is so great it has to be for a reason that we have been brought here to this same point in time. At a Quantum level, we are all connected anyway. Hence, I am excited to explore why it is that we are here together today. I am open to the possibilities of where our conversation will take us”
As science and spirituality converge, we understand that at a vibrational energy level, a quantum level, we are one. There is no individual, a solo being, we are all connected. When we resonate in a certain way, we attract people to us who resonate the same way. It’s not by chance, here you are reading Kuel Life and here I am writing for Kuel Life. Synchronicity at its best.
I Love All my Friends Dearly
They have so much to teach me. Yet, I do find myself drawn towards one more than others. I wonder if you can work out which one that is?
About the Author:
Kay is the founder of Midlife Strategies, an award-winning International Speaker, and enthusiastic author. She is an acknowledged expert guiding women to find their mojo, through the Midlife Squeeze.
Kay’s books include:
- ‘The Art of Midlife Stress Busting – Seven Steps to Declutter Your Mind Without Pills or Potions’
- ‘How to Clean Your Home Organically – De-Stress Your Surroundings’
- ‘Tips and Tricks For Stress-Free Downsizing – A Step by Step Guide to Moving On’
- Co-author of the six Kindle books in the ‘Quick Fix For’ series, and a contributing author to ‘Hot Women Rock’ and ‘A Journey of Riches’.
Today, Kay lives a simple life next to a beach in Mallorca, Spain. You can find Kay here: www.KayNewton.com.