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4 Ways To Increase Your Intimacy In Your Relationship

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Sexuality Thought Leader: Beth Keil 

This great sex conversation began with last month’s blog. It focused on the core ingredients, and how techniques are not one of them!

This month is about your relationship with your romantic partner, or the one you seek. 

“It’s an invitation to explore and create ways for you and your partner to come together..”

It’s an invitation to explore and create ways for you and your partner to come together – from the energies you bring, to your imagination, as well the mystical and magical dimensions of intimacy.

You can’t use your intellect or rely on scientific “evidence” to create this dance of intimacy, passion, and connection. If you do, it will be as if you’re dancing with two left feet! 

Explore the Adventure:

Here’s the next invitation: Tap into both your inner and outer senses. 

I’m sure you’re very familiar with your outer senses – touch, taste, sight, hearing, and smell. However, they are just five of the nine you need for this adventure!

The Four Inner Senses:

Your other senses, which work together, are crucial for great sex with your romantic partner and really increase your intimacy with your partner.

1.The Imagination:

Our imagination expands and deepens all experiences, especially the sensual, romantic, and the erotic. You tap into your imagination while reading a romance novel, or watching a romantic movie. It’s what causes you to emotionally, even physically, respond!

2. Intuition:

Your inner wisdom, intuition, is your guide to tap into what your outer senses can’t. When engaged, you’re able to sense how to pleasure each other and fuel desire and the passion energy! It can also lead you to discover unexplored sensations and sexual expression. 

3. Your Emotions:

Emotions are also part of your inner wisdom and expand the depth of connection and intimacy in your relationship. You can hear the emotions through sounds of pleasure such as moans, sighs, and gasps. You can feel it as your lover pulls you even closer. When deeply steeped in emotional connection, orgasms can take you to other dimensions! 

“When a deep emotional connection is missing, so are the depths to which passion and sexual intimacy can go.”

Open Yourself In Every Way:

At the core is vulnerability, opening yourself in every way to each other. It’s part of what our emotions invite us to be. When a deep emotional connection is missing, so are the depths to which passion and sexual intimacy can go.

Put another away, it’s the difference between getting laid and being made love to.

4. Your Body’s Responses:

How your body responds is also intricately woven into this sensuous tapestry of intimacy and sexual erotic expression. When your bodies, emotions, intuition, and energy are attuned to one another, subtleties appear that add to the erotic sexual energies you create. A great example of this is what one woman shared about her lover. He discovered he could keep her coming as long as her clitoris was hard when he went down on her. It’s how they discovered she was multi-orgasmic.

Get Ready to Explore And Increase Your Intimacy:

If your romantic relationship isn’t as passionate, magical, and erotic as you need, want, or desire, here’s the next invitation!

This is an invitation for you both to cultivate and honor your inner senses. To have fun, to fuel the romance, and to enJOY their magic as you enhance and express them. Remember to use all your inner senses whenever you’re together, and learn how to keep each other hot and turned on all day when you’re not. 

Let all this become a way of living!

Here’s to your Aphrodite Rising!

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Beth Keil

About the Author:

Beth Keil helps her clients change and transform their lives. She offers a special focus on helping people claim the birthright of their erotic identity and to live in the joy, intimacy, and connection it brings. Beth is a Registered Nurse, MindSet Coach, and a Board Certified Hypnotist. Through her work, she enjoys integrating all her interests, experiences, and skills to bring sensuality, sex, and the erotic into greater awareness and conversation. You can schedule a 30-minute complimentary phone consultation with Beth using the Discovery Session icon.