Midlife Matters: Linda Butler
The urge to rush into 2025 with new resolutions and a clean slate is tempting. And here is why reflecting on 2024, first, is key to success in the New Year.
But have you found yourself setting the same goals year after year? Perhaps it’s that persistent 20-pound weight loss goal or the promise to finally start your own business. The reality is that without proper reflection, we risk repeating the same patterns and behaviors that get us nowhere.
So before setting those fresh goals for 2025, let’s pause to honor our journey of 2024. This reflection creates the right space for us to build upon what we’ve learned to create meaningful change for the future.
” This habit leaves us constantly chasing, instead of appreciating our progress”
The Power Of Reflecting On 2024:
Many of us race toward what’s next without acknowledging how far we’ve come. This habit leaves us constantly chasing, instead of appreciating our progress. For midlife women especially, the pressure to be everything to everyone can overshadow our ability to recognize our personal achievements.
Society often teaches us to measure success through visible achievements – promotions, fitness goals, or material gains. Yet true growth can happen in quiet moments of self-discovery and personal victories. These wins might seem small, but they can teach us what to build upon to create lasting change.
Consider both your proudest wins and the valuable lessons from setbacks. These reflections help you learn what’s most important to you.
Questions To Guide Further Reflection:
- What moments in 2024 brought meaning or fulfillment?
- Which accomplishments, whether big or small, make you proud?
- How did challenges help you learn about yourself?
- What would you do differently if you could replay the year?
- What positive patterns do you want to carry into 2025?
- Which relationships enriched your life this year?
- What new skills or insights did you gain?
Creating Your Vision For 2025:
Before rushing to list resolutions, sit with this question first: “What do I want my life to FEEL like in 2025?” It might seem uncomfortable at first. Many of us aren’t taught to prioritize our own needs and feelings. But personal success isn’t just about reaching external goals or achieving more; it’s about creating a life that feels meaningful and authentic to YOU.Â
Think about which parts of your life feel most aligned with your values. Where do you need adjustments? How do you want to show up for yourself and others? If fear or doubt weren’t factors, what would you pursue? What does success look like on your own terms?
The key lies in creating goals that energize rather than drain you. Consider what activities make you lose track of time. Which relationships lift your spirit? What work feels meaningful? Let these insights guide your vision for 2025.
“The key lies in creating goals that energize rather than drain you.”
Remember, this isn’t about creating perfect resolutions that fade by February. Focus on building a roadmap that reflects who you are becoming. Your past experiences offer wisdom for the journey ahead. Trust your intuition and let your authentic self guide the way forward.
Moving Forward With Intention:
As you close 2024, use this pause to honor your journey. Take these insights into the new year with confidence. You’ve gained wisdom through every experience of 2024. Now use that knowledge to create meaningful goals that align with your values and desires.
Consider sharing your reflections with a trusted friend, family member or a community of like-minded women. Sometimes speaking our truth aloud helps clarify our path forward. Together, we can support each other in creating lives that feel both purposeful and authentic.
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About the Author:
Linda C. Butler, a former HR executive turned entrepreneur and coach, is passionate about empowering midlife professional women to become the CEOs of their own lives. After navigating her own transformative journey following a layoff at age 50, Linda now leverages her extensive corporate leadership experience and neuroscience-based coaching expertise to help women redefine personal success on their terms.
She focuses on uncovering and overcoming limiting beliefs, embracing authentic leadership styles, and establishing healthy boundaries. Her holistic approach ensures a harmonious blend of career, family, and personal health and well-being for a more fulfilling second chapter. Linda’s mission is to inspire midlife women to stop settling and become the architects of the future they truly deserve. You can find Linda here, on Linden Lotus Consulting.