Declutter To Reinvent: Cat Coluccio
Over the past year, I’ve written numerous articles about the positive power of decluttering at midlife, and how to get started.
I’m so passionate about the subject that I’ve even written a book on the subject: The Savvy Midlifer’s Guide to Decluttering – Clear the Clutter, Reclaim your Sanity and Create Space for the Life you Want! You could say that decluttering is close to my heart and you wouldn’t be wrong!
The pursuit of a clutter-free life is absolutely worth the effort. However, the journey isn’t always smooth sailing. Many well-intentioned decluttering efforts are often thwarted by common mistakes that can slow your progress or even result in more chaos. Hence, this month’s article is a little different. Instead of giving you tips for decluttering a particular area of your life, we’re going to explore some common decluttering mistakes and how to avoid them.
“Focusing on one room or area at a time will prevent overwhelm and give you a “win” that will help you maintain momentum.”
Common Decluttering Mistakes to Avoid:
1. Setting Unrealistic Expectations:
Decluttering isn’t a one-time event but rather an ongoing process. Setting unrealistic expectations, like wanting to declutter an entire house in a single weekend, can lead to frustration and burnout. Not to mention the headache of trying to find matching shoes for work on Monday when the entire contents of your closet are strewn across your bedroom floor after running out of time last night. Instead, break down your decluttering goals into smaller, manageable tasks. Focusing on one room or area at a time will prevent overwhelm and give you a “win” that will help you maintain momentum.
2. Not Having a Plan:
Walking into a cluttered space without a plan of action can leave you feeling overwhelmed and unsure where to start. Before diving in, take some time to assess the space and develop a decluttering strategy. I personally like to work my way around a room in sections, an example being our home office. Here, I tackle one book case at a time, rather than emptying the contents of both book cases, the desk and drawers into one huge pile to sort. Once you’ve decided on your plan of attack, start categorizing items into your keep, donate, or discard piles from the get go. Having a clear plan will streamline the decluttering process and keep you on track.
3. Hoarding Sentimental Items:
Sentimental items tend to hold a special place in our hearts, making them challenging to part with. However, holding onto too many sentimental items can clutter your space and waste your time with dusting. Often it’s easier to leave this area when decluttering your home, however this is a mistake you want to avoid. Instead of keeping everything, be selective about which items truly hold significant meaning to you. Consider taking photos or creating digital keepsakes to preserve memories without taking up physical space.
4. Ignoring Digital Clutter:
Clutter isn’t limited to physical objects, it can also accumulate in the digital realm. Neglecting to declutter your digital devices, such as your computer or smartphone, can lead to a cluttered digital space that affects productivity and mental clarity. Personally speaking, this is the type of clutter I struggle the most with. Take the time to organize your digital files, delete unnecessary emails and apps, and streamline your digital workspace for a more efficient and clutter-free experience.
“Consider taking photos or creating digital keepsakes to preserve memories without taking up physical space.”
5. Not Establishing Systems for Maintenance:
Decluttering is only half the battle. Maintaining a clutter-free space requires ongoing effort. Failing to establish systems for organization and maintenance can result in clutter creeping back into your space so quickly you will be shocked! By implementing habits like daily tidying routines, weekly decluttering sessions, and designated storage solutions – plus ensuring that your family all understand the plan going forward – will help prevent clutter from accumulating again.
6. Shopping Without Purpose:
Bringing new items into your home without careful consideration can undo all your decluttering progress. Avoid impulse purchases and shopping sprees by adopting a more mindful approach to shopping. Before buying something new, ask yourself if it serves a purpose, adds value to your life, and has a designated place in your home. By being more intentional with your purchases, you’ll prevent clutter from piling up unnecessarily.
7. Failure to Let Go:
Letting go of belongings can be emotionally challenging. However, holding onto items out of guilt or fear of letting go can hinder your decluttering efforts. Practice letting go of items that no longer serve a purpose or bring you joy. Remember that decluttering isn’t just about getting rid of stuff—it’s about creating space for the things that truly matter.
Decluttering is a journey that requires patience, persistence, and a willingness to learn. By avoiding these common decluttering mistakes and adopting effective strategies, you can create a more organized and harmonious living environment. Remember, decluttering isn’t just about clearing physical space—it’s about creating room for growth, creativity, and peace of mind. Now roll up your sleeves, embrace the process, and enjoy the transformative power of decluttering your home, workplace, digital world and life!
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About the Author:
Cat Coluccio’s a qualified Educator, Personal Trainer and Life Coach – and a champion of midlife women. She is the host of the Rocking Midlife® Community and Podcast, and the author of a number of books, including 21 Hacks to ROCK your Midlife. Join my FREE 30 Day Love your Home Decluttering Challenge for 30 days of email prompts to help you fall in love with your home once more!
Cat is passionate about helping midlife women create fulfilling and purposeful lives yet understands how challenging it can feel to consider reinvention when your world is already so incredibly full. Hence she firmly believes that the first step to building the life that you desire in your next season, is to declutter and create space right now – be that physically, mentally or digitally.
10 Tips to Simplify your Life is a workbook Cat wrote to help break the feeling of overwhelm that clutter brings – and even better, it is her FREE gift to you. Download your copy and start simplifying your life today! Available >>>> HERE <<<<