Sexuality Thought Leader: Beth Keil
Where did your imagination just go?
If you’re still reading, it went somewhere!
Get Turned On And Get Hot!
The imagination is your gateway to get there, consistently and easily. The problem is, so many of us had our imagination wings clipped.
“You see this when a young child has ‘imaginary’ friends and is made fun of or shamed.”
You see this when a young child has ‘imaginary’ friends and is made fun of or shamed. Or when you started to color, most likely you drew outside the lines; at some point, you were ‘taught’ to stay within them. Harry Chapin’s song, “Flowers are Red ” powerfully speaks to this, and brings tears every time I listen to it as my wings were also clipped.
The M-B-S Problem:
Years ago, the concept of the Mind-Body-Spirit connection became very popular. In time, people started to use it as part of their spiritual and health/wellness practices.
Notice that the imagination and emotions weren’t included, and without them, creativity, inspiration, and desire starve from a lack of fuel! It’s time to reclaim our sexuality and sexual expression as both spiritual and part of our health and well-being!
Without Them, Life Isn’t As Fantastical And Enchanted As It Can Be!
Remember, your imagination is what fuels your emotions as well as your body. They can make something drab and lackluster or make it enchanted and fantastical! The latter is what excites passion and pleasure! Given a choice, which do you desire?
“Go outside your comfort zone and use words you usually don’t; you might find, in this context, they excite you both!”
Talk Dirty To Me:
The imagination lights up when you and your lover speak in erotic sexual ways; it stimulates the senses and your bodies, so both of you get hot!
This is also a great way to enhance your erotic vocabulary, as together, you share and explore fun, play, and passion! Years ago, my lover and I explored such words and discovered both of us were particularly fond of words that began with ‘c’.
Have the same conversation with your lover, so both of you are excited and comfortable with the words you use. Go outside your comfort zone and use words you usually don’t; you might find, in this context, they excite you both!
Seduction As An Invitation:
To stoke the passion energies, use your imagination as seduction! Let it lead the way as you talk to your lover, whether you text, email, talk, or leave them a voice message.
This is An Ongoing Invitation When You Want Ongoing Desire And Passion!
Just like small meals or snacks during the day, it keeps the energy up! Done throughout the day, you get to turn each other on, so when you’re together, the passionate energy is already full throttle!
Go online and search ways to talk dirty with your lover that are comfortable. Just remember, if you only stay within your comfort zone, you can only get so far.
For great sources of scenario ideas, read and highlight sections of romance novels. Next, have your lover read them, so they can learn what excites you!
Men tend to be visual, so consider going online together and explore ideas of how you can dress that excite him, and you!
Here’s to your Aphrodite Rising! Now that we know what is the most powerful aphrodisiac – let’s get to using our imaginatons.
Click here to listen to Flower Are Red sung by Harry Chapin.
About the Author:
Beth Keil helps her clients change and transform their lives. She offers a special focus on helping people claim the birthright of their erotic identity and to live in the joy, intimacy, and connection it brings. Beth is a Registered Nurse, MindSet Coach, and a Board Certified Hypnotist. Through her work, she enjoys integrating all her interests, experiences, and skills to bring sensuality, sex, and the erotic into greater awareness and conversation. You can schedule a 30-minute complimentary phone consultation with Beth using the Discovery Session icon.