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5 Ways To Work Through Your Wrong Feelings Around Money

5 Ways To Work Through Your Wrong Feelings Around Money

Karen McAllister July 2023 1

Money Thought Leader: Karen McAllister

Many of us want to manage money skillfully, sensibly and thoughtfully.

Keep Up With The Budget:

We want to get good at negotiating a salary or setting a price reflecting our abilities. We want to spend money consciously, set a budget, and keep up with the budget. And we want to look after our 85-year-old self. We want to use it to deepen our relationships with others.

And yet, many of us let other people control the conversation about money. We end up making too many concessions that are not in our favor, focus on the wrong thing, and take it too seriously.

Others give away services for free. Many women feel like they don’t have enough experience in their field, even though we do. They tell themselves they are not good with numbers. They end up putting in lots of work before the prospect has committed. Some underestimate the time the service will take and quote a too-low fee. Others feel like they are one of many doing what they do—and belittle their services even before they put them on the market.

Doorway Into Greater Integration:

Others feel they need to be more consciously spending. They set up a budget and then don’t follow their budget. Others spend, scramble, and get tight with money. Then spend it when they need it and deal with the consequences later.

When you look at your life through the lens of money, you gain access to your whole way of being. Rather than feeling you are doing something wrong with money, see it as a mirror. It is a doorway into greater integration.

5 Ways To Work Through Your Wrong Feelings Around Money:

Here are some ways to work with feeling wrong around money:

1. Look Inside:

Look into your interior state to judge your actions around money. Ask yourself, “Do my actions unfold and refresh me?” “Do my actions produce states of turmoil?” You are not making a moral judgment. It is about the resultant state. Is there a washing of your whole self with a greater feeling of life? Or does it produce conflict and blockage?

Patience is seeing the pragmatic reality of the situation.

2. Cultivate Patience:

Patience is seeing the pragmatic reality of the situation. Know your family and societal conditioning have formed patterns that will perpetuate. It is seeing the conditioning with serene detachment.

3. Focus On The Little Efforts:

Make persistent small efforts to drop the unwholesome. It is not the big efforts that help. The little efforts, the moment-to-moment cutting through verbalisation and fantasy, will succeed.

4. Stop Feeding Your Wrong Patterns:

Cultivate the strength not to feed these patterns of feeling wrong around money with a constant and calm effort. I encourage you not to fuel the negative.

5. Let Go Of Your Ego:

Moment by moment, drop the ego identification with feeling wrong around money. See how it manifests in behaviours, thoughts and feelings, leave it behind, and walk on.

Unhelpful Wrong Views Around Money:

The natural energy state will be present when we remove the blockage and unhelpful views around money. You, then, have much more potential than is allowed to work. Your part is to break through the chains that bind you simply.

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About the Author:

Karen has worked with over 100 clients, helping them untangle their money issues and to become more effective in their work because of it. To do this, Karen has studied financial issues extensively from both the practical, behavioral, and the emotional perspectives.

She has been certified by Deborah Price of the Money Coaching Institute as a Certified Money Coach, a Couples Money Coach, and a Business Archetype Coach. She has studied with Lynne Twist from the Soul of Money Institute for two years on Mastering your Money and Transforming your Life, including studies in Lynne’s Fundraising from the Heart program. Checkout Karen’s site TheMindfulMoneyCoach. Or, you can email Karen directly at theka***@******************ch.com. 

 

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