Wildly Imperfect: Elaine Blais
Dear Radiant Woman,
As you, and I, stand at this unique and beautiful intersection of wisdom and what’s next, I want you to feel cradled in love, admiration, and endless possibilities – regardless of societal norms. This journey we have been on is nothing short of miraculous. Countless transformations. The many iterations of you that have blossomed into this freer, fuller version of yourself. Your very presence is magnificent.
Now, as you ponder the questions, “Who am I now?”, “What do I want?”, and “How do I get there?”, allow me to reflect on the incredible potential within you and how to embrace this new chapter free from societal expectations.
Ageism is what we make it. We can let it bind us, or we can persist on our path, believing in the breadth and depth of our inner brilliance.
“Ageism is what we make it.”
Who Are You Now?
Don’t let anyone fool you into thinking you are any less a masterpiece in progress than you have always been. You are shrouded in the richness of experience, deep compassion, and incredible resilience. This phase is not about diminishing but about emergence.
Think about all the storms you’ve weathered and the hearts you’ve nurtured and healed. Pause and reflect on the love and loss you’ve experienced, and how you’ve cultivated the garden of your life through each chapter. Your essence is a blend of your past experiences and your evolving self. You are the culmination of dreams realized and the embodiment of those yet fulfilled. We are not done – you and I. We are just getting started.
What Do You Want?
This is your moment to dream audaciously – to look within and listen to the whispers of your soul. Ask yourself, “What passions have I set aside?” and “What new adventures beckon me?”. Perhaps it’s nurturing a long-held idea, embarking on a new career, or finding peace in the garden. Know that your desires are valid and within your reach.
Release the past, relax into your life, and let your imagination run wild. This is your sacred path, and it is uniquely yours to explore. Embrace it wholeheartedly, for the world craves the brilliance you offer.
How Do You Get There?
Start by embracing your experience and intuition, allowing your wisdom to guide you. Access the profound wisdom within you to illuminate the way forward. Surround yourself with those who uplift and encourage you. Think about what you want to explore – the books you’re eager to read, courses you’d like to take, conversations you look forward to having, and connections you’re keen to establish.
“Let your brave heart set new intentions and pursue them with confidence.”
As A Radiant Woman:
Dear Radiant Woman, don’t let society’s expectations overshadow you. Let your brave heart set new intentions and pursue them with confidence. This next chapter is one of self-confidence, poise, and unapologetic self-approval knowing each step, no matter how small, is a step towards your envisioned future.
Here are some time-tested ideas for living with radiance in this stage of life.
- Write Your Herstory: spend time contemplating and journaling to explore your true self apart from external roles and labels. Celebrate the milestones, accomplishments, and experiences that have shaped who you are today.
- Set Courageous Intentions: Craft a vision board or statement centered around your intentions. Experiment, try new activities, or revisit old ones to rediscover what truly brings you joy.
- Take Focused Action: Take steps that align with your vision. Connect with like-hearted individuals, hire a coach, or join groups that support your goals and dreams.
- Pause and Ask: Ask yourself often, “Does this support the life I choose to live now?” Let go of anything that doesn’t.
A Future Filled with Possibilities:
Above all, become acutely aware of old beliefs and stereotypes about age that no longer serve you. Society’s expectations do not define your worth or your potential. You do. Embrace the freedom that comes with this stage of life. Know that you have the wisdom and strength to create a fulfilling and vibrant future on your terms.
Your life is your masterpiece and the future is still unwritten. It is awaiting the bold strokes of your imagination to set the course. Stand in your courage to be messy, imperfect, and unapologetically authentic.
In this era of renewal and transformation, cherish the newfound freedom and revel in the possibilities ahead. You are a woman of infinite potential, and the world eagerly awaits the next chapter of your extraordinary story.
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About the Author:
Elaine Blais is Spiritual Life Coach, Imperfection Alchemist and author whose superpower is helping humans, primarily women, alchemize their perceived imperfections and turn them into strengths. Her signature program, The Art of Self-Approval™ is a pathway to breaking free from the chains of perfectionism and people-pleasing and unlocking your full potential.
After a quarter century in the corporate grind, and years of struggling with co-dependency and self-doubt, Elaine decided to leave behind what was expected of her and transform into the woman she wanted to be. So, at fifty-nine, she decided to write a new chapter in her life, literally. Her debut book, 3 Secrets to a Kickass Life, is a manifesto for those looking to live with intention and purpose. Elaine believes you can write your own story too.
