Small Space Fitness: Cat Corchado
Letting go of old fitness beliefs can be the most powerful shift you make in your midlife wellness journey—and I’m here to tell you why it’s worth it.
Why Letting Go Of Old Fitness Beliefs Matters Now More Than Ever:
This month, I want to talk about something that has made a huge difference in my fitness journey. It’s not a new workout. It’s not a supplement. It’s letting go of some old beliefs I carried for years about what it meant to be fit and healthy.
How My Old Fitness Beliefs Held Me Back:
For a long time, I believed that the only way to achieve real results was through intense workouts every single day. No rest. No excuses. I also bought into the idea that health meant strict diets and constant deprivation. I thought rest was for the weak, and more was always better.
But those beliefs? They led me straight to burnout and injury. They weren’t helping. They were hurting.
I used to push myself through two, sometimes three fitness classes a day. I wasn’t a beginner. I was an athlete in high school, and later a group fitness instructor. I was all-in. Go hard or go home. But eventually, my body started pushing back.
It took me time to realize that just because something worked in my 20s or 30s didn’t mean it was going to work in my 50s or 60s. My mindset needed to evolve. So I let go.
- I let go of the “no pain, no gain” mantra.
- I let go of punishing workouts that left me drained instead of energized.
- I let go of the idea that fitness has to look a certain way.
And you know what? When I let go of those old fitness beliefs, I made room for something better.
How I Rebuilt My Routine After Letting Go:
Now, I work out smarter, not harder. I take rest days, and I even built in what I call “Catitude Day” — one full day a week where I do whatever I want, when I want, if I want. That might mean a walk, or it might mean absolutely nothing. Either way, it’s my day to reset.
Letting go of extremes gave me space for balance. It gave me the freedom to listen to my body. It gave me permission to enjoy the process instead of just chasing results.
I’m now 68, and I feel better in my body than I ever have. I still move. I still challenge myself. But I do it in a way that honors where I am right now. I enjoy my workouts. I have a healthy relationship with food. And yes, I still eat ice cream and the occasional cookie.
Letting Go Doesn’t Mean Giving Up—It Means Growing Up:
This isn’t about giving up. It’s about growing up. It’s about unlearning what no longer serves you so you can move forward with strength, clarity, and joy.
If you’re holding on to old ideas about what fitness should look like, I want to encourage you to let them go. Let go of the need to punish yourself. Let go of the “all or nothing” mindset. Let go of the belief that you’re failing if your routine doesn’t look like it did ten years ago.
Instead, make space for movement that feels good. Make space for recovery. Make space for flexibility, variety, and rest. Make space for yourself.
Final Thoughts On Letting Go And Moving Forward:
Letting go doesn’t mean losing progress. It means making room for the kind of progress that actually lasts.
So if this resonates with you, if something inside you is saying “yes, it’s time,” then listen. Trust your body. Be kind to yourself.
And keep it moving.
Until next time, I’m Cat Corchado, your Movement Specialist.
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About the Author:
Cat is a proud US Air Force veteran who has made it her mission to help women veterans transition from the military. She is a leader and speaker within the active duty and veteran community and her advocacy has helped her develop the Sisters-in-Service podcast- a platform for anyone affiliated with the military.
Cat is also the founder of the Small Space Pilates community. Cat feels privileged to work with midlife women to help them increase body awareness, mobility, stability and strength in a safe and fun environment. With over 39 ears in the fitness arena, her specialties include Personal Training, Pilates, Activated Isolated Stretching (AIS) and most recently her certification with CETI to work with cancer. Follow Cat’s Sisters In Service on Instagram for more information.

















I agree, and I have changed the reason to being strong in my older years instead of doing it just to lose weight or look good.
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Jodie
It’s a great distinction, isn’t it? I think about longevity and functionality and less about vanity every day…..
Great article, Cat. We’re on parallel paths. I had to do a similar reframing, and that’s keeping me in the best shape of my life at almost-68.
Also, I love this blog feature, and would love to swipe a page from your playbook. Do you use the “anyone with the link” option to keep limit viewing to Kuel Life folks?
Again, great job on this month’s article. Felt it to my bones!
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